Disciplining an ADHD child can bring out the best and worst in parents. The average child goes through predictable development stages, like a clear road map; you know what types of behaviors to expect at a certain age, and when he or she is supposed to outgrow them. Children diagnosed with ADHD, however, have temper tantrums or discipline problems that seem to go on forever. Yet every accomplishment and improvement gets magnified after weeks and months of struggling and treatment. Here are three secrets to ADHD discipline that can help manage the worst symptoms.
Avoid making comparisons
Your ADHD child is different, and comparing him or her to a child without the disorder is counter-productive. Many parents discover that family life becomes more enjoyable after they stopped focusing on their child’s shortcomings and started enjoying their child as he or she is. While it certainly helps to keep yourself armed with information about ADHD and the latest treatment, try not to focus too much on your child’s “problem” to the extent that you start treating him or her like a project. Instead, appreciate the unique strengths that “normal” children do not have. As you help your child overcome ADHD symptoms and behavioral problems, find ways to develop the skills and talents inherent in him or her. Read the rest of this entry »